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"Hi honey, do you have homework tonight?"

Well, summer vacation is over and your child is probably knee deep into assignments and projects at school. You had a reprieve but now you find yourself asking the droning question daily, "Do you have homework tonight?" Trust me, it is just as boring for your child to hear this question as it is for you to ask it. So, I want to free you from that monotony, liberate you from the heavy sighs and often unaware responses of your child. Stop asking this question!

"My mom said I have an appointment at the Writing Center soon..."

I have the wonderful and unique position of teaching Dual Credit English classes. This means that I teach college courses at a local high school. These students have passed the college placement tests and will receive college credit along with high school credit for Senior English (that's where the "dual" part comes in). Some students are amazingly ready for the course work, while others struggle right along. I don't have the luxury of office hours for them after school so I often suggest they go to the college Writing Center for extra help. Hey, it's free!

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Mrs. Atkins, how long does this essay have to be?

Encourage your child to go for excellence. Students get so hung up on page numbers: “How long does this essay HAVE to be Mrs. Atkins?” My usual response is, “As long as it needs to be. Just make it brilliant.” Focusing on quantity means they are not focusing on quality. They are strategizing to get three to five pages, not developing their ideas to address the academic question thoroughly and thoughtfully.

OK, I have a tutor. Now what?

When meeting with your tutor, you’ll want some indication of progress. Ask her to draft a letter/email every two to four weeks for you. I like email because it is a paper trail and easily forwarded to teachers for review. Try to stay away from verbal updates. In the written review she should cover:

1. Your child’s attentiveness and willingness to learn. (Behavior during sessions.)

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Finding a Private Tutor

Tutoring centers, such as Kumon and Sylvan, provide organized and tested strategies for improving students’ work. Benefits include very experienced staff, often teachers themselves. There are plenty of resources available and if one tutor isn’t working for your child, another can be requested. However, centers are also very expensive, sometimes impersonal, far away, or not open hours you want. For these or any other reasons, you may choose to find a private tutor willing to come to your home. If so, there are some things to think about when interviewing:

1. Experience:

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“I know my child is smart, but she is just not a student.”

As a parent, I know what it is like to look at your child and see the smartest kid in the world and worry that despite those brains, the school experience is going down hill fast. The notion of the “smart kid” was turned on it’s head in the early ‘80s by Dr. Howard Gardner, professor of education at Harvard University. He identified eight areas in which people can be “smart”. The implications of his theory of multiple intelligences impacted the education community because they called for a restructuring of formal education.

My son says he has no idea what to write about. What should he do first?

When I worked in public relations, I remember having such fun when the team would get together in the conference room to brainstorm. We would get some goodies from the vending machine or local bakery, get out the flip chart and big markers and start flinging ideas. Help your child get started on an assignment by facilitating a “corporate” brainstorming session. You can get flip charts at Office Depot or Staples, but they can be expensive. Oversized sheets of drawing paper from Target will work great, but any unlined piece of paper will do.

My son just got a difficult writing assignment. Now what?

Students came into my writing center for help on an assignment at all different points in the writing process. Some students came with a rough draft to review with me; but, more often, I would see students who had not even started the assignment. What do you do when your child comes home with an assignment and has no idea how to start? It will be hard for you to figure out what the teacher wants since you were not there for discussion. Helping your child help himself will pay off in the long run, especially once he is on his own in college.

I have tons of ideas, but I don’t know what to write about first!

Sometimes students come to me with a great problem; they have tons of ideas. Brainstorming went well for them and now they are looking at a healthy mess of points they would like to make but have no idea where to start. I always tell them it is better to have too many ideas than too few. If your child needs help after the brainstorming process, you may consider using what teachers call a bubble chart, or what corporate America calls a "flow chart".

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Mom, can you read my paper?

I’d like to write a little about what to do when your child comes to you with a finished draft. Often, I’ve found that some students do not like any input, nor do they like anyone to read their writing until they have produced a draft. Whatever the case, when you read your child’s draft (and they are all drafts, even the final ones), please keep a few things in mind.